X 118.Telling lies ... a way of hiding

the truth.... as much as we can.

And we do it ... so often ... that all becomes ridiculous. by the well known romanian author Adrian Dumitru

 

 

 

I trend to believe that telling lies ... it is normal ... or even a positive thing into some circumstances.

Imagine for example that 20 years ago ... because of some weird factors you had become a drug dealer .... selling and consuming that into your school.

You did it ... for few years ... and that almost ruined your life.

Fortunately ... into one point something happened ... and you could get out from that ugly story.

After years ... you meet a person who just hates drugs.

The mother of that person was drug addicted ... and simple ruined the life of the whole family because of that.

Even hear ... the word drugs .... instantly drives crazy.

So ... the question becomes ... should we tell the truth, lie ... or just hide the truth about the past?!

You see ... suddenly we realise that ... the lie itself has its positive side.

 

And ... come on .... let's get serious.

You are not anymore that person from 20 years ago.

Even the cells from your body had changed since then.

So ... the lie ... is a good thing.

.... sometimes.

Or hiding partially or totally ... the real truth.

It is into the benefit of the relationship ... cause the negative impact will be just ... huge ... and maybe ruin the relationship you have.

But ... of course ... on long term ... all becomes difficult.

Parts of that truth ... are revealed automatically by the passing of time.

And ...

Well ... another option is to explain those secrets ... and the positive meaning of those lies.

... the real intention.

Also ... clearly state .... that things had changed a lot ... and today all is different.

So .... lies have a role.

... an important one and we should all try to understand and maybe accept their positive meaning into the relationship.

 

 

 

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