A man needs to know that he
can't really be with a queen ... if he is not treating her properly.
Otherwise ... all will become
a nightmare. ...by romanian author Adrian Dumitru
I continue writing about the contradictory roles the human being is playing on the stage of life ... and i smile seeing the nonsense, repeated on and on ... and on.
But ... continuing my meditations, i always realise that actually beyond the nonsense there is always... a very strong message ... which many times we just can't become aware of.
For example my friend Karl ... which is married... started a beautiful relationship with an amazing girl from Sri Lanka.
Of course .... as usual ... many would define as totally immoral such a story ... and maybe not even worthy to be written, but I consider it .... so damn relevant so that we could understand the real dynamic of a relationship.
Somehow it was funny cause i saw Karl ... illusory believing he can split himself without any consequences... being a husband, but also in love with another woman.
Actually ... for a while all worked ok ... and he thought all was just fine.
But ... after telling me lots of beautiful things about the amazing sexual connection they had ... one day seeing him unhappy, he just replied to me ... "I don't really know, what the hell happened, but she has some gynaecological problems ... which totally ruined our relationship."
I looked at him ... and listened to the whole story ... but i am not bothering to tell all the details, cause many of them are just irrelevant.
But ... i've listened all ... cause he really needed someone to talk about the whole situation.
I've not even replied anything.
... just listened and smiled.
2 weeks later, meeting Karl again ... he started to speak to me about her again.
"Listen Gabriel! You've wrote so many about love stories, but you'll just not believe what i am going to tell you.
So ... she was to a gynaecologist and the doctor said ... there is no real problem, but he recommended us to go also at a psychologist too.
And ... we've found a great psychologist, booked an appointment at her ... and ...
Well ... the doctor just explained ... it's all generated by me.
The fact that i did not bothered to buy to her that beautiful car she's been dreaming about ... not treating her like a queen, made her have an unconscious form of protest, inducing herself the gynaecological problems .... so that our sexual connection will be cut ... and i don't feel the same
when i am with her.
Actually... to understand i don't treat her properly ... and she'll have a similar reply."
I've started to laugh in front of my friend ... and i suddenly see him annoyed of my reaction.
But i've replied ... "So ... the psychologist told you that you've got an amazing mistress ... in fact a queen, but as usual ... same as you did with your wife, you just treated her like an ordinary woman.
Correct?!
Today ... your wife is a bitch.
And ... your mistress ... protests in front of you into an unconscious way."
Somehow it was funny seeing such a dynamic at the relationships of my friend, but into the same time, a real case scenario.
But ... I was making the same mistakes as my friend .... so, i was not judging him.
I've only realised that ... us the men ...we dream for having a queen, but don't really want to treat them as ... queens.
Or ... maybe my friend was not capable at this time of his life to accomplish the dreams of his wife and his mistress ... so he just ended up seeing his life ruined.
Somehow ... there are many cases when all it's related with the money ... but paying the price ... or at least doing the best to pay it ... it's most probably a must ... if we really want to continue being into an amazing love story.
If not ... living into a free world ... we should maybe have in mind ... another woman, but at least have the decency not to
look at a queen anymore.
Cause ... a queen needs to be treated as a queen.
Otherwise ... all will just be .... illusory.
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