When you see the negative change at the persons that you used to...

When you see the negative change at the persons that you used to like a lot ... just remember them who they used to be. Nothing more! … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

Posted 2024-10-14 16:19:07

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People change.

Yes ... we all change and it’s nothing wrong with that, but the only real problem is that sometimes we don’t react well at the lessons given by the Universe ... and the change becomes a negative one.

It happens i met not so long time ago a friend that i did not saw for 15 years.

She was a pretty girl, very intelligent and also a beautiful soul.

She was about 24 at that time and now she was close to 40.

It was a real pleasure to see her again and i was really happy because of that.

Today she had the same beauty and maybe she was even more intelligent ... but soon after i realized i deal with a totally different person.

She was very negative, was afraid of people ... of absolutely everybody and even if she knew me by such a long time she treated me almost like a war criminal.

Arguing with her for no reason, seeing that i am losing my time and still trying to be polite, i decided to block her and forget that we’ve met.

The pleasure of meeting again disappeared and i understood that unfortunately life changed her a lot ... and not in a positive way.

But you know ... today you block someone on whatsapp and they write you on messanger or instagram ... and the same happened with her.

And seeing that i am still a “war criminal” ... i saw no way out than say:

“Listen my dear!

15 years ago i met a very beautiful soul, but i don’t recognize that person anymore!

You were such an amazing person!

Please ... just try to remember who you’ve been at the time i first met you!

It will help you a lot if you try to meditate over this subject for a short while!”

I could be rude ... same as she’ve been with me, but she was not in a good shape anyway so that i should do this.

You see .... sometimes there is no real need of saying too much ... but only

remember them that you used to know that they were amazing in the past ... and can’t understand the change.

That’s it! Nothing more!

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